Ok, I think I figured out what happened with Tim and me. Aaliyah helped me figure it out.
What had bothered me was that he went way out of his way to befriend me after I was done being his teacher, and then he didn't make a move on me.
Something about that didn't add up. Generally, I don't think guys befriend a girl unless they have some sort of interest in her. A girl can befriend a guy without sexual intentions, but I don't think a guy usually befriends a girl without having sexual intentions.
Plus, the first thing he did was invite me to a bar crawl. I feel like he definitely befriended me because he wanted to fuck me.
I didn't go to the bar crawl. The first time I hung out with him was at his party, which happened 2 months after he befriended me.
In that time, I think he got to know me a little better and decided I was worth more than fucking. I know this because he did not try to make a move on me at his party. But something prevented him from asking me out all the same.
The conclusion I came to is that the situation is a lot like the Ray situation. Tim wanted to fuck me at first, but then decided I was worth more than fucking after getting to know me. Probably he thinks that I'm worth more than fucking, but that there's something he sees that is telling him that I'm not the one for him. Then, because Tim is an infinitely better person than Ray, he chose to not even go there and not even start anything, because he can tell that we would date for awhile and then break up. Therefore he is sparing my emotional roller-coaster by being a decent human being and not asking me out.
This is all conjecture, but I think it will get the job done. I have before me a reasonable sequence of events that would explain Tim's actions towards me. Hopefully, I can start to move on and get over him now.
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